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Why Romance Is Necessary In Relationship

Is romance necessary in a relationship?

Romance is one of the most crucial elements to happiness in relationships. Many partners do not really know what romance is or how to implement it. Understanding why romance is so crucial is a necessary first step to those interested in rekindling love. But what are the little things you did to get his attention, to keep him interested, to win him over? We’d be willing to bet those things are no longer happening. We often do not realize how much work we were putting in in the beginning, nor do we notice our decreased effort, and how that can lead to an emotional breakdown and stagnancy. Many of us in relationship feel awkward and don’t love making romance in their relational world. Hence, it reduce it’s sentiment and taste to push far. Many relationships lacking Romance are due to our religious perspective and ideology, which implies of we the Christians,Moslems traditions and other religious bodies. Romantic nature in relationship makes it happier, enjoyable easier to live in. Talking on religious belief, many don’t admit Because our religion don’t permit such romance or even dating someone due to holiness on the body . We date to know how we both value our self, to know much about him or her, to know his or her weakness and strength. I will advise we put much effort in our relational world and sometimes play romance, but not to an extend of jeopardizing it. Thanks.

By Larbi Pope Williams

10 NEW RULES IN RELATIONSHIP ( @OFFICIAL_POPE 1 )

  1. Choose a partner wisely and well. We are attracted to people for all kinds of reasons. They remind us of someone from our past. They shower us with gifts and make us feel important. Evaluate a potential partner as you would a friend: 2. Look at their character, personality, values, their generosity of spirit, the relationship between their words and actions, their relationships with others. 3. Know your partner’s beliefs about relationships. Different people have different and often conflicting ideas about relationships. You don’t want to fall in love with someone who expects dishonesty in relationships; they’ll create it where it doesn’t exist.
  2. 4. Don’t confuse sex with love. Especially in the beginning of a relationship, attraction and pleasure in sex are often mistaken for love.
  3. 5. Know your needs and speak up for them clearly. A relationship is not a guessing game. Many people fear stating their needs and, as a result, camouflage them. The result is disappointment at not getting what they want and anger at a partner for not having met their (unspoken) needs.
  4. 6. Closeness cannot occur without honesty. Your partner is not a mind reader.
  5. 7. Respect, respect, respect. Inside and outside the relationship, act in ways so that your partner always maintains respect for you. Mutual respect is essential to a good and fair relationship.
  6. View yourselves as a team, which means you are two unique individuals bringing different perspectives and strengths. That is the value of a team your differences.
  7. 8. Know how to manage differences; it’s the key to success in a relationship. Disagreements don’t sink relationships. Name calling does. Learn how to handle the negative feelings that are the unavoidable byproduct of the differences between two people. Stonewalling or avoiding conflicts is NOT managing them.
  8. 9. If you don’t understand or like something your partner is doing, ask about it and why he or she is doing it. Talk and explore, don’t assume or accuse, IS A FACT
  9. 10. Solve problems as they arise. Don’t let resentments simmer or heat up. Most of what goes wrong in relationships can be traced to hurt feelings, leading partners to erect defenses against one another and to become strangers. Expect more on the new rules in relational world. Blessings

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LARBI POPE WILLIAMS

OBAATAN PA SONG LYRICS ( BY OMI JASON) MOTHER’S DAY.

Official Indigenous Mothers day song.

OBAATAN PA lyrics by OMI JASON

Yea,nwom wei k)ma maamefo) nyinaa

UU yea (OM2DI)
Sɛɛ yɛkaeɛ a yɛmmoa sɛ obaatan pa ho yɛ na

Obaa biara tumi wo
Nanso ɛnnyɛ obiara na oyɛ obaatan pa

Nyinsɛn yɛ ya na abateteɛ deɛ ɛdutwam

Obi ba baako pɛ
ɛt) da mpo a na asetena mu ayɛ den.

Me maame woo mmamu mmamu dubaako.

Me na met) so nsia
Sɛ mekae abofono ne ntasuo a woteeɛ aa

Na ɛsɛ me sɛ mede wo hyɛ akyiri

Na mema wo amo ɛfiri sɛ me maame woayɛ bi oo

chorus
obaatan pa obaatan pa ho yɛ na 3*

Me maame Efua Abeduwa maame woayɛ bi oo

Obaatan pa obaatan pa ho yɛ na 3*

Me maame Efua ABEDUWAA w’aseda nie oo

Verse 2
Awo) nti obaatan biara yɛ obodamfo) (sɛbe)

ɛnkanka sɛ wo mma d))soo woanhwɛ yie yɛbɛfrɛ wo obɛefo).

Anka wompɛ wo ho asɛm nso yafunu b)ne nnim sɛ masa

ɛt) da
nkwadaab)nesɛm nti obi mpo koraa tumi nya wo kasatia

Baabi a wonk)) h) da wo mma nti wodi h) ak) ne aba

Nanso ne nyinaa mu me maame LIZY woampa aba

ɛnkanka Ntonso Aboaso sɛ yɛhwɛ nneɛma bi wofaa mu a

Yɛda Awurade ase mpo sɛ wote ase

Efua Abeduwaa ee Onyame nhyira wo oo

Obaa Lizy yɛse Onyame nhyira wo paa

Sɛ yɛma wo sika mpo a maame ei wobɛdi ama no asa

ɛno nti matena me nsankuo akyi maame twebɛn me oo na bɛtie w’asom nwom pa

(piano interlude by OMI JASON)🎶🎵🎶🎵

And add libs by MR BENCHIE

Repeat chorus till fade

By Ofosu Manu Isaac ( OMI)

POWER TO SAY AM SORRY IN RELATIONAL WORLD ( @OFFICIAL_POPE 1)

Apologies and forgiveness are pivotal aspects of intimate relationships. Saying “I’m sorry” is not about admitting who is right or who is wrong but about acknowledging when a wrong is perceived and empathizing with feeling hurt. Efforts to apologize signify a desire to put your partner and your relationship ahead of yourself. Without an apology, some relationship problems will fester and risk devolving into resentment.
Saying “I’m sorry” means something different to different people, and we vary in what we need from our partners after feeling hurt or betrayed. In other words, not all apologies are created equal, and it is important to understand what the hurt partner is looking for when you make an apology or seek forgiveness. Otherwise, you may find yourself caught in a cycle where you that feel your sincere efforts to apologize are rejected and your partner feels neglected and disrespected. Many don’t admits to their fault and hardly apologize to their partner. I have a friend of mine who I love most, he’s call Simon in his early thirties (30).

He always apologize to his beloved fiancée when he’s at fault. I love and cherished those who put much effort in their relational world. “THE POWER TO SAY AM SORRY IN RELATIONAL WORLD” means a lot in human race. As a guy or lady don’t feel too pompous of telling your fellow partner you are SORRY, is a sign of love and affection for both.

We need to exercise these things, we are all human and sometimes feel ease with our partner, to err is human, to forgive is divine. Why can’t we say “sweetheart am sorry” it softened things in relationship, it makes it happier and better to live in. It also makes relational world vibrant. Guys, Ladies learn to say am sorry. And your relationship will lead to somewhere. God bless you.

LARBI POPE WILLIAMS

FIVE FEATURES TO NOTICE TO PROLONG MARRIAGE ( WOMEN TIPS)

1. Love.
Love in every aspect of humanity count. Many marriages are falling apart due to this circumstance of vulnerability of love. Marriage as biblical state is for better and for worse. We need love and affection to prolong our marriages. Husband as the Bible stated, they should love their wives unconditionally and wives to submit and respect their husband respectively. We all know the kind of love many people in martial life lure in.
Our life has indulge in many activity, perhaps wayward life and it has result inability to love our partner due to cheating profanity. Wives love your husband as you love God and make her your no 1 important personality in your marital world. When a wife loves Husband, it generate respect on both side. Some women can ask “How can I love my husband as the Bible says” meanwhile my husband is cheating or pursuing infidelity act. As a Christian mother and wife,sit your husband down, talk to him amicably. Secondly both should visit a trustee family or marriage counselor for counseling session. Thirdly as a wife pray fervently, as stated 1 Thessalonians 5:16-17. In all wives love him well and make him a happy husband.
2. Attention & Care.
Attention and care to your partner (husband)shows how much your marital life will leave to an end of the second of Gods coming. Many marriages are dying due to such act. Women don’t have time for their husband, they work 24/7 daily and need their their husband to love them unconditionally. It will break your marriage, when you do such act as a woman and a wife. You need to let your husband understand why you are not caring and having enough attention for him. Perhaps, he is a being, he will understand you and your marriage will prolong well.
Don’t sit there for him to announce his intention of your inability to prepared and keep him safe, if you do that , you are risking your marriage for someone else. I will advise at least have a time for your husband of all your busy schedules. Don’t risk your marriage for a maid in the house, you might end your marriage for the maid when your husband is not a pure and trustworthy Christian. Wives, SAFE your marriage.
3. Respect.
Respect on the other hand on a marriage is another fact and vital principle that help couples or spouse prolong their marriages. Respect is very vital, the Bible also speak of wives respecting their husband for the husband to love them in return. Some women behave and don’t respect their husband, which their relationship in marital life is falling apart. It not guarantee 100% for wife to respect their husband, why am I saying that! Because 85% wives in this ungodly world don’t respect their husband at all cost. Some have motive of being the head of the family due to their wealthy life. Is not so my dear, wives focus, behave and learn how to tolerate with your partner (husband) I will personally talk about how marriages are breaking due to low respect from the wife to husband. Will emphasize on it more on my next edition.
4. Sex.
SEX, Why do sex cause a breakdown in Marital world. Why have women refuse their husband sex at all time.
Is it the cause of everyday sex requested from husband or tiredness from the women. A client I met some months ago was facing this problem, just because husband request sex each and everyday. You know how to take this thing serious. I will advise fellow wives to talk to their husband in their sexual life. There are many problems that arises in marital sexual life.. But as a wife, do your best not to hunger your husband sex. Stay focus wife

5. Food.
Won’t talk much about it, because wives know what their husband’s want. Blessings
Note: favourite Quote : Colossians 3:18-22, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-17
By Larbi Pope Williams, Relationship Therapist.

@OFFICIAL POPE 1

10 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR PARTNER LOVE YOU EVEN MORE( LADIES TIPS)

You can’t force a person to love you, but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t things that you can do to help things along a little bit. This isn’t about playing manipulative mind games with a person, it’s about helping someone who you love realise just how much they love you. If you’d like your partner to love you even more, and to show it, read these ten tips that will help open up his eyes to just how much he really does love you.

Lets concentrate on the points .

1. Don’t try so hard
The very fact that you are reading this might be an indication that perhaps you are just trying too hard. Ease back a bit, give him some space and don’t keep expecting him to tell you how much he loves you. Men don’t like being put under pressure and his love for you will grow much quicker, if he is left to make that decision for himself.
2. Make him laugh a lot; hahahaha

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The more you make him laugh, the more he’s going to want to spend time with you. Men are no different from women in this respect, if you have fun with someone, you will become more and more attached to them. Be prepared to make fun of yourself too. It’s much easier to love someone who does not take themselves, or life, too seriously.
3. Let him see the real you

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It’s great fun putting on the makeup and getting dressed in your best outfits for a guy, but don’t be afraid to look natural sometimes too. He will appreciate it when you make the effort to look great for a night out, but he also wants to get to know the real you. You don’t need to impress him all the time; it’s the person that he will learn to love more, not the makeup and the designer clothes.
4. Show him that you are independent

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How is he going to know how much he would miss you, if you are always there at his beck and call? He should know that you have a life outside of the relationship and you should go out with your friends sometimes. There’s no harm at all in him knowing that you can be independent, it will actually make him want you all the more.
5. Get to know the things that he likes

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Although there is no point in you pretending that you have become a football addict, you could take an interest in some of the things that he likes to do. If he is a sports fan, you could sit and watch a game with him instead of disappearing off into another room or, at the very least, ask him who won. He will really appreciate it if you take an interest in his hobbies and pastimes.
6. Give him compliments

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If you are in a relationship with a guy, then he already knows that you like him, but he’d still like to get some complements sometimes. Tell him when you think he’s done something well, or let him know that you like the way he looks in his new clothes. Everyone likes to receive compliments, so don’t hold back. Who wouldn’t fall in love with someone who flatters them and makes them feel good about themselves?
7. Get along with his friends and family
You can’t guarantee that you will adore all of his family, or that you will like all of his friends, but you should do your level best to get along with them. Being nice to his friends and his family is sign of respect for your partner and he will love you for making the effort, even if you can’t stand some of his buddies. The worst thing you can do is to make enemies of those in his close circle, because that will be embarrassing for him and awkward for you.
8. Keep a bit of mystery about yourself
Men love a bit of mystery, so don’t give everything away all at one go. Let him discover more and more about you, as time goes on, and then he will love the surprises and he will keep coming back to find out more.
9. Make him proud of you
Don’t be afraid to share your successes with him, because he will enjoy them as much as you do. Let him see that you can win and he will be so proud of you, he will love you even more. Most men like a woman who has ambition, drive and passion, and they will want to share that with you and help you achieve your goals.
10. Be there for him when he needs you
One of the hardest things for man to do is ask for help, so let him know that you are there, if he needs you, and then follow that promise up with action, if and when the moment comes. Men are not as half as tough as they make themselves out to be, so become his motivation and support, and will love you all the more for it.

Thanks for reading

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By Larbi Pope Williams