There’s no reason to be a jealous partner if you’re the one snooping through your partner’s privacy and relevant stuffs. Several actions can help you cope and to be more vibrant in relational world. Many partners see’s many action to be jealous, and over unnecessary thing that will create confusion and misunderstanding for both.
Avoid situations that are likely to arouse false suspicions. The more they would find evidence to worry about, leading to even more spying, and creating a vicious cycle of increased monitoring and jealousy
Work on yourself. Work on building your confidence in yourself and your relationship. Communicate with your partner. If you are experiencing jealousy, talk about it with your partner but the way you talk is key, If you express anger or hurl accusations at your partner, that’s not going to help. You must be direct, but not hostile. Calmly explain your feelings and discuss how to find a solution. This will enable you to be more satisfied and prevent your partner from being confused by your jealous behaviour. These communication points are most likely to bring out positive responses in your partner.
Sometimes jealousy is justified, If your partner has had an affair and has betrayed your trust, for example, that is a serious issue. If you are jealous because you’re involved with someone who doesn’t seek monogamy, while you do, then your jealous feelings may be a good reason to leave the relationship and seek someone whose relationship goals are more compatible with yours. But when you get jealous over stupid things, you’re not showing love, you’re revealing your own insecurities. You have to observed and count what your partner dislike and also like. There’s more room for improvement and one needs to exercise patient even if you see your partner is chatting or talking to someone. Many relationship are falling apart due to such insecurities and it create mistrust leading to breakup. I don’t see any reason to be jealous, and over your partner you loved and admired most. it’s sensational. Guys has a problem of these issues regardless to being pushy or rushed to conclude on matters that are not relevant.
When you love your partner and trust him or her you both are bound to be happy and have prosperous in your relationship. Is a good way to learn how to avoid jealousy in your relationship. Be a good partner and make the relationship work leading to long lasting marriage. Blessings
Larbi Pope Williams.